Sunday, October 30, 2011

39 weeks

I CANNOT believe that I will be having my 3rd baby (in less than 4 years) in 2 days from now. I mean, I only have one more wake up before it will be Birth Day for our newest little one. That is crazy!!! It cannot possibly be time for this. Mike and I are BOTH in denial...deep denial!! :)
While we are the most unprepared, we are at the same time the most prepared for this little boy. We know that there are going to be many struggles in the upcoming weeks with figuring how to take our family of 4 to a family of 5...especially with a demanding 3.5 yr old and 17 month old pulling us in many directions, but we also know that God had a plan for this one. God wanted us to be a family of 5 and God certainly made it happen. With that knowledge, I just grin and laugh nervously when everyone asks, "are you ready?" Well, I had better be. Come 8am Tuesday morning I am having this baby whether I am "ready" or not. So, I guess I will just say that I am the most excited to meet a new baby that I have ever been and the most scared to meet a new baby as I have ever been. :)

Here is me...the only pregnancy picture I have taken this time around. (that poor 3rd child!)

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Pumpkin Patch in Hayden, AL

Mike took a few hours off of work yesterday to accompany us to the Pumpkin Patch. We have been every year and to this particular one 3 times. We really enjoy all they have to offer. this year, though, it was misting rain the whole time we were there. So, the bouncy house wasn't as much fun and we didn't get to do the petting zoo or pony rides, but the kids still had a blast riding the covered wagons out to the patch, picking their own pumpkins, and then playing in the hay pile while waiting to be picked back up. It was a fun morning and I am so glad that we all got to go before Colin made his arrival!!

My 2 sweet pumpkins
Ryan thinking he was a bit stronger than he actually is...

Such a sweet daddy/daughter photo
Mike carrying the "perfect" pumpkins. One that was definitely "the biggest pumpkin ever!!"
Posing with said pumpkins from above
the awful picture of me. But, I had to put something on here just to prove I was there.

Seriously Batman!!

What has really been going on around here...let's see...
September flew by -- the kids started back to school and Ryan started a Soccer Shots class after school on Wednesday's. This has been awesome because the children stay at school long on this day until 4pm and gives me lots of time to get things accomplished! (not that I actually GET anything accomplished, but it has been helping out nevertheless.)
Ryan has learned some letters of the alphabet and seemed particularly interested in "Achoo A" and "Mr. D" while celebrating with Donuts. We don't really work on it much at home, but he definitely recognizes letters when he needs to and does the same with numbers on his clock. He is really into knights right now. He loves watching Backyardigans and particularly loves this episode where they sing a song about "A Knight that's Right". So, he is obsessed with having something that resembles a sword stuck into his pants in back so that he can pull it out like a knight pulls a sword out of a shield strapped to his back. He is actually going to be a "knight that's right" for Halloween. We have the outfit and I found a shield that straps to his back and has a sword that goes in the middle. He was OVER. THE. MOON. when I took it out of the package and showed it to him. It goes everywhere with him and he even sleeps with it. We talk a lot about being Gascon from Beauty and the Beast because he carries a sword. It is pretty cute actually. He is turning into such a responsible big brother. He is always making sure that Kaitlyn is where she needs to be and lets me know when she is not. Tonight he went and got her up from the Dining room floor after she had pitched a total tantrum about not being able to turn off the cable box while Ryan was watching TV. Ryan was trying to block the box and Katilyn got mad, so she started hitting him in the back with her head to make him move. I grabbed her up and popped her on her leg and she dissolved into tears. I took her to another room to calm down and Ryan ver sweetly came over to give hugs and kisses and explain that she could stand up when she stopped crying. Next thing I know, she is standing up dry-eyed, she is giving him sweet hugs to say I'm sorry. You know what he tells me. "Mommy, she doesn't have to say I'm sorry. I'm ok. It's no big deal" What a little mature 3 yr old I all of a sudden live with. Truth be told, he really is getting excited about Colin and about being a big brother again. He told me last night that Colin was coming after Halloween and that he was just going to "squeeze" him he was so excited to see him! He also explained all of the things that he was going to teach Colin. (this included taking him out for ice-cream like we did today and sharing his ice-cream cone with Colin since I don't ever get chocolate and that is what Ryan gets and he needed to share it with Colin.) I wish I had a recorder with me throughout most of the day just to get it all down since I can hardly remember all the cute, sweet, insightful things that he says on a daily basis.
Kaitlyn is starting to talk a little more. She makes sounds for a duck, elephant, doggy, and bunny. She signs please, thank you, more, and all finished. She calls Ma Ma and Da-dee all the time and has a special word for Ryan as well, but I can never catch exactly what it is. She loves to imitate. She imitated me the other night blowing onto her booboo in the bathtub. She has been pulling up that same leg ever since and acts like she blows on it. She copies a lot of what Ryan does and tries to get him in trouble by starting up both the splashing game and the yelling game. She also loves to antagonize him by stealing his cape to his pajamas and running and by stealing "doggy" and not giving it back. She thinks both of these games are hysterical.
Me - I am ready to not be pregnant anymore. I am getting to the uncomfortable last 3 weeks and it is showing. Everything hurts these days and some pains just don't get any relief...my back is constantly strained from holding all 25 lbs of Kaitlyn. My legs are beginning to resemble an elephant's legs, and some days it hurts just to stand up. I am ready and then not so ready. I am anxious to meet this little one. More so than I was our 2 other children. (with Ryan I was too scared of all the life changes that were going to happen and with Kaitlyn I was really worried about the dynamic of 2 children and the loving/caring for etc that goes along with it.) This time, I am really excited to meet Colin. I am just not sure how I am going to get by once he gets here. I think Ryan will be great. He is showing many traits of being a great leader/teacher/mentor to his younger siblings and really shows a large capacity for compassion and caring and protectiveness. (in addition to being a regular 3 yr old that snatches and doesn't want to share and throws tantrums when not getting one's way. haha)
Kaitlyn is another story. She is still such a baby in so many ways. She is independent and wants to do things herself, but then on the other hand she is really clingy these days and wants to constantly be held. She IS giving the best hugs and kisses though. (and freely gives them out to all of our mommy friends) I just think that she is going to be a little jealous of Mommy having another baby to handle. I think I am going to be holding 2 babies as often as possible. Or, just hoping for a VERY laid back 3rd child that won't mind being on the floor, in the bouncy, or in the swing while I hold his sister. :)
Anyway, that is enough of my rambling...
Here is a picture of Ryan trying on a baby hat that I found in a bin this weekend...

It's Fall!!

Love that it is finally turning into fall. I have been so ready for cooler temperatures and fall clothes. The children were dressed for church (and sporting team colors) and decided that they looked so cute why didn't I take some pictures of them. I happily obliged! Ryan was saying "Go Tigers!" We are trying to teach him about "Mommy's team" and "Daddy's team". Guess that means we need to be fair and get some USC gear for him too. I have had a good time watching some Clemson games here in Bama recently...now that they are actually on TV over here for a change. Ryan has really been picking up on which teams goes with which parent. Kind of cute since this is the first year he has taken an interest in sports.
Not much else to tell about this particular day...just a pretty Sunday catching up with some pictures of my sweet children.



Ryan's mess


So, naptime...that was such a sacred time at our house for so long...this summer it took a turn for the worse. Ryan went to "school" on Tuesday and Thursday this summer. I noticed that every Tuesday/Thursday I had to FIGHT him to take a nap. I don't know what it was about going to school that didn't wear him out enough to sleep. Or, maybe he got overtired...who knows. Anyway, after 3 months of tantrums, spanking, cajoling, arguing, etc, we finally worked out a little routine where I would put him in his room to "sleep" and he wasn't to come out until 4:30. He would last about 20 minutes at the beginning of the summer. By Labor day, we were going the full 2.5 hours...YES!!! I mean, if he wasn't going to nap on those days, at least he understood the power of "independent play" and "mommy time"!
So, school begins this semester and instead of T/Th, Ryan is going M/W/F. So, like clockwork, he now doesn't nap on MWF and does on T/TH. Well, the mess being made in those 2.5 hours is sometimes indescribable. Last week we walked in and found purple crayon all over his window and 2 of his walls along with some books, the chair, the play kitchen, and a lamp shade. Not a good afternoon I have to say.
These particular pictures are also from last week depicting the amount of STUFF that he pulls out of his closet to entertain himself during "naptime".
It must have taken him at least an hour on this day to clean all of this up...wow!!!